from the Church of the Larger Fellowship
February 2005
KidTalk: Connecting Kids to Unitarian Universalism and Each Other

Celebrate!

You may think of January as the start of the new year, but in China and Vietnam, as well as in the Muslim tradition, the new year comes in February. And, of course, there’s the February favorite, Valentine’s Day. How can you not like a holiday that involves candy? Click on the links below to find out about some holidays that may be unfamiliar to you, and to find fun ways to celebrate more familiar ones. Oh, and check out the REsources page in the February Quest (in print or on-line) to find out more about Groundhog Day.

Some of these holidays celebrate seasons of the year, and some celebrate important people who have made a difference in history. When you celebrate holidays you can remember that two of the sources of our living tradition are “Spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions which celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature” and “Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.”

Valentines Day
Chinese New Year
Tet Nguyen Dan
Mardi Gras
Al Hijrah
Imbolc
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We Honor…

Two special Unitarians who had their birthdays in February.
Charles Dickens was one of the most famous novelists to use the English language. His works, incredibly popular in both their day and now, came out in installments in magazines. Often funny, his books also helped wealthier people to understand what life was like for the poor of England. Although he wasn’t raised a Unitarian, in 1842 he met William Ellery Channing and Ralph Waldo Emerson, and their commitment to a religion that cared about helping people, and was inclusive of different people and beliefs, convinced him to join a Unitarian church back in England. Learn more about Charles Dickens and his connections to Unitarianism.
 
Dickens
Susan B. Anthony was a great American crusader for several causes, including the abolition of slavery. However, she is most famous—and worked hardest—for the movement to give women the right to vote. A tireless worker, she lectured and raised money and protested for decades, trying to bring about equality for women. Although she never officially left the liberal Quaker church in which she was raised, Anthony went regularly to a Unitarian church, and was very much in sympathy with the Unitarians. Maybe it’s a bit of a stretch, but we can’t resist claiming this brave woman as one of our own! Find out more about Susan B. Anthony’s life, and see some pictures of what she looked like.
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Act!

Valentine’s Day is a great day to show that you care. In addition to giving valentines to family and friends, why not make valentines to give to people at a local nursing home or shelter for the homeless? Kids in a shelter for families escaping domestic violence, or on the children’s ward of a hospital, might be especially glad for a beautiful, cheering valentine.

Or, you might want to join with UUs in California who are sending messages to their legislators in support of the right of same-sex couples to marry. If you think it’s unfair that two women or two men who love each other and care for one another can’t get legally married, or if it bugs you that kids with two moms or two dads can’t have the legal security of married parents, then put it on a valentine! If you live in the United States, you can find out how to contact your members of government, from the president on down, at http://www.congress.org/congressorg/home/.

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Ask CLiF

Ask CLiF any questions you have about religion or living a good life


Dear CLiF,
Where did Unitarian Universalists come from? –Lorraine


Dear Lorraine,
Wow, that takes a pretty long and complicated answer. Let’s see how short I can make it.

Originally, Unitarians and Universalists were two different groups, who both believed in an open-minded approach to religion, and who thought that we should work to make things better in this world, rather than mostly worrying about getting to heaven and trusting that things would be better after we die. Unitarians put their emphasis on the goodness of people and our ability to figure out the right thing to believe and do. Universalists put their emphasis on our relationship with a loving God, who cared about us and was rooting for us to be kind, happy people. Both groups started official organizations in 1825, but were around for a while before that—in fact a number of the American revolutionaries and founders of the USA were Unitarians!

Although both denominations were originally Christian, both the Unitarians and Universalists came to embrace the idea that you didn’t necessarily have to believe in Jesus Christ as a savior, or even in God. Since they agreed on so many things, and since both were small, and sometimes struggling, denominations, in 1961 the two groups agreed to join together into what became the Unitarian Universalist Association.

You might be interested to know that the Unitarian and Universalist youth organizations joined together before the two denominations did. Once again, kids were at the forefront of a good idea!


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