from the Church of the Larger Fellowship
January 2005
KidTalk: Connecting Kids to Unitarian Universalism and Each Other

Celebrate!

For most of us, the holiday that we think of in January is probably New Year’s. For ideas on celebrating New Year’s with resolutions, see the REsources page of the January issue of Quest. However, January has other celebrations that you may or may not be familiar with. Click on the links below to find out!

Some of these holidays celebrate seasons of the year, and some celebrate important people who have made a difference in history. When you celebrate holidays you can remember that two of the sources of our living tradition are “Spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions which celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature” and “Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.”

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We Honor…

Unitarian Universalists who gave their lives in working with Dr. King to bring racial justice to the United States of America.
 
Viola Liuzzo was a mother of five who decided that, for her, religion meant standing up for what she thought was right – the principle that all people should be treated equally. She answered Martin Luther King’s call for people to march on Selma, Alabama for justice for African-Americans. Tragically, Viola was murdered while giving a ride to a Black fellow protester.
Find out more about this amazing, ordinary, woman.
 
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Rev. James Reeb was a Unitarian Universalist minister who also responded to the call to march for justice in Selma. He was attacked by white people who didn’t want the justice-workers in their city, and died from his injuries.
Learn more about James Reeb, and read the words that Dr. King spoke at his funeral.
 
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Act!

Like people around the world, you’ve probably heard about the incredible damage done by the tsunami that hit various countries in South Asia and East Africa. (For an interactive map which both shows and gives information on the various countries that were affected, click here and click on “Map of Damage” in the right hand column.)

It’s common to feel helpless and sad when hearing about so many people suffering. None of us can fix this terrible situation, but all of us can do some little bit. Perhaps you and your friends or UU group would like to have a fundraiser to send money to help the victims. There are, of course, lots of ways to do this, from contributing money raised by babysitting to having a lemonade stand. Or perhaps you’d like to sell beautiful origami lotus flowers.

Lotus flowers are found throughout many countries of the area devastated by the tsunami, and they are a Hindu symbol of prosperity and new life. For the Chinese, the lotus represents creative power and purity in difficult surroundings. And for Buddhists, the lotus flower is a symbol of the religious community. So what could be more appropriate as a way to help people in Asian lands to build a new life in their demolished world through the help of our religious community? Click Here (PDF) for instructions on how to fold a lotus flower from paper. For best results, you will want to use colored origami paper. To make layered flowers, make a blossom out of any sized square you want, and then make one out of a square that is half the size of the first one, and one out of a square that is twice the size of the first one.

You might want to make up tags to go with your flowers, explaining the lotus flower and the how the money you raise from selling them will be used. Now, with help and permission from your parents, you’re ready to sell your beautiful creations to neighbors, teachers, members of a UU community or whoever else you can think of.

Then, ask a grown-up to help you in sending your money to the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee. The UUSC is working with partner organizations in the affected countries to help the people there re-start their lives.

The act of making lotus blossoms and the act of helping those in need are prayers of our hands—prayers for our sisters and brothers in South Asia, that they may find ways to prosper through such difficult times. Through such prayers we can, indeed, change the world.

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Ask CLiF

Ask CLiF any questions you have about religion or living a good life


Dear CLiF,
What should I do when I see someone getting bullied at school? – Melinda


Dear Melinda,
Sticking up for someone who’s getting picked on is always hard, since it means you might become a target too. But part of being a Unitarian Universalist means working to see that all people are treated fairly. One of the best things you can do when you see someone getting bullied is to get a grown-up who can put a stop to it. For more tips on dealing with bullies you could take a look at http://www.no-bully.com/elementary_school.html or find out about steps for dealing with conflicts at http://www.inspiringteachers.com/tips/character/bullybeast.html


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